Recovery from Chronic Fatigue Syndrome
by Bruce Campbell

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Table of Contents

      Introduction
  1: What Do
      I Do?
  2: Multiple
      Strategies
  3: My Unique
      Situation
  4: Is Recovery
      Realistic?

  5: Loss

  6: Self-Help
      Program
  7: Energy
      Envelope
  8: Pacing
  9: Rest
10: Records
11: Exercise
12: Relapses
13: Stress
14: Emotions
15: Support
16: Recovery
17: Lessons
18: What About You?
 

Bruce Campbell's CFIDS/FM Self-Help Program


17: Lessons

CFS changed my life. In contrast to other illnesses I have had, it was not a temporary interruption of my life, but rather the central fact around which my life revolved for several years. CFS imposed severe limits on me and brought great uncertainty. Given the limited medical resources available for treating CFS, I concluded that to get better I would have to accept responsibility for finding things that would help me. 

I tried to combine two elements which may seem in conflict: acceptance and hope. Acceptance did not mean resignation, but rather a recognition that my illness forced me to live a different and more limited life. I believed that listening to my body and responding to its needs gave me the best chance for improvement. I also recognized the limits of my power. I believed that I could exercise some control over my symptoms, but whether I recovered was out of my hands.

In addition to acceptance, I had hope. I was confident that through changing my daily habits and routines I could find things to help me feel better. I believed that I could reduce my discomfort, regain some control over my life and reduce uncertainty. I did not expect a quick solution; rather, I recognized that self-management was a way of life.

My Strategies

Looking back, I see that I built my approach on six strategies.

1) Using Multiple Techniques: Because I had several symptoms and because CFS affected so many parts of my life, I needed a variety of coping strategies. Rather than thinking I could cope by using a single solution, I realized I would have to think comprehensively about my life and use many strategies.

2) Experimentation: I believed I could learn from my experience, gradually becoming more skillful in managing my illness. I assumed that this approach would require discipline and patience, and that some of my experiments would fail. But I felt confident that I could improve my skills over time and that, in any case, there was no better alternative.

3) Pacing: I came to believe that defining my limits in detail and living consistently within them offered the best chance of controlling my symptoms and improving my quality of life. This meant finding a sustainable level of activity and making appropriate use of rest on a daily basis. Pacing was the heart of my recovery program.

4) Controlling Stress: Because my illness both increased the stress in my life and magnified the effects of stress, I made managing stress a major focus. I used relaxation and other techniques to reduce stress and also learned how to control stress by avoiding stressful situations. Managing stress was the second most important part of my recovery program.

5) Addressing Emotions and Relationships: I had to acknowledge the powerful feelings triggered by being ill and adopt strategies to combat them. Also, I found that support, especially the support offered by fellow patients, was crucial to living well with illness.

6) Building a New Life: Another central challenge was coming to terms with loss, finding a way to bring new meaning to my life when so much had been taken away. After much struggle, I decided that while I was unlikely to restore my old life, I could build a new one in its place. Creating and leading the self-help program was a central part of my new life.

Summary

My approach of using self-help exclusively was different from that taken by most people with CFS. Under different circumstances, I might have combined a self-management approach with a medical one. But self-help served me well, enabling me to regain my health gradually over a period of four years, using techniques I believed were safe, prudent and effective, focusing as they did on living within limits and extending those limits very gradually, as allowed by the illness. I believed that changing my habits and routines offered the best chance for improvement. I saw my role as listening to my body and doing those things that would help it find a way to re-establish good health.

My approach reminds me of the message to patients from CFS/FM specialist Dr. Lapp on website we developed together (mentioned in Chapter 6). He says about living with CFS or fibromyalgia:

"Your doctor can help you cope with CFS/FM, but your success in regaining control will likely depend more on what you do than on anything a doctor does for you. Medical treatments can help alleviate the symptoms of CFS/FM and further reduce suffering by treating other medical problems, but the key to recovery in CFS/FM is acceptance of the illness and adaptation to it by means of lifestyle changes. If you adopt [this approach] --which will require discipline, courage and lots of patience-- you can overcome the CFS/FM dragon. You can regain control, instead of your condition controlling you!"